From a Prayer Partner – (posted 3/31/2008, by Todd, on http://toddnettleton.blogspot.com)
Last week I received an Easter letter from Dr. Jim Garlow, a best-selling author and the pastor of Skyline Church, one of the largest churches in the Wesleyan denomination. I'm not sure how I got on Dr. Garlow's Easter letter list; I've met him and heard him speak, but I'd say I know who he is more than I know him. Yet his letter contained a nugget of truth that has come to my mind many times since it arrived in my email box. Here's a portion of his letter: Carol (Jim's wife) was diagnosed with primary peritoneal (ovarian type) cancer in June 07, resulting in a seven hour surgery, removing over 100 tumors, which caused multiple stays in the hospital, trips to ER's, seven weeks of nausea, six rounds of chemo and a sudden 57 lb. weight loss… Cancer is horrible. It changes everything. It makes "normal" out of reach. However, it does have some serendipitous impact. For starters, we really cling to God more now. Secondly, (as noted above) I am so aware of how interdependent I am. I needed others. Many others. Thirdly, Carol and I have fallen in love – very deeply. Thirty seven years of marriage plus the uncertainty that cancer brings has resulted in us being honeymooners again. We are very clingy – wanting to be together all the time. I touch her, hold her, kiss her every chance I can.
During the eight months following the June diagnosis, I cancelled everything to become a primary caregiver. One night, while cleaning the carpet after Carol had experienced a serious bout with nausea, I heard God say, "this is the best ministry you have ever had." And it was. Read that last paragraph again. THE BEST MINISTRY YOU'VE EVER HAD.
This is a man who has preached to thousands. Dr. Garlow is a man who effectively leads a very large church with lots of great ministry; he has defended the gospel on national television. A man who has written gospel-promoting books that ended up on the New York Times best seller list. He has a daily radio feature that is heard across the country. In the Christian world, this guy is big time! Yet in cleaning up vomit for his sick wife he heard God's approving voice say, "This is the best ministry you've ever had."
Men, there is a lesson here for us. Husbands and fathers, listen! It is not in the thousands that our best ministry is found, it is in the wife and children God has entrusted to us. I believe that our public, "big-time" ministry is undermined when it is built over top of the neglect of those closest to us. I believe that if you aren't ministering to your wife and children, God may not be nearly as taken with your ministry as you are. And as I verbally point fingers, know that I'm pointing at myself too.
My wife became pregnant about nine months into our marriage, and with her pregnancy came "morning" sickness. Raw meat made her sick. Our toothpaste made her sick. Things that hadn't bothered her the previous day made her sick. She was sick often. I tried to say nice things and keep her spirits up. And, as she knelt at the porcelain throne, I stood behind her and held her long brown hair up out of the way. I didn't think much about it. I was surprised months later when she told me how much that meant to her, that I held her hair while she threw up. To her it was a symbol of my love and commitment, a sign that I'd stick around even when things got tough and nasty and uncomfortable. Perhaps, in those moments, was found some of the best ministry I'll ever have.
Last Updated ( Wednesday, 04 June 2008 15:18 )
The Searching or Thought of Heart
Written by Steve Russell
Tuesday, 15 September 2009 06:21
Judges 5:15 (New International Version)
“The princes of Issachar were with Deborah; yes, Issachar was with Barak, rushing after him into the valley.In the districts of Reuben there was much searching of heart.”
This week I find myself writing to you from one of my most favorite places, my boat!Yes, I consider it my floating office.What a beautiful day the Lord has blessed me with, too.The temperature is in the low 80’s, there’s a light breeze blowing across the water and the humidity is very low!Yes, I am writing from an Oklahoma lake in August!The sun is directly overhead and I am obviously in heaven. Well, as close as it get’s on this side of eternity.
This week we are looking at the Searching or Thought of Heart.The NIV uses the word searching and the King James used thought.The Lexicon transliteration for the word thought comes from the Hebrew word cheqeq meaning decree, resolve, statute, action prescribed.
Did you realize the heart searches and gives thought?
As I gave this more consideration, I concluded the angle or emphasis I want to take this week is to focus on one particular meaning, that of action prescribed.
Most of us are fully aware that the heart searches.One does not have to look far to realize that.The heart searches to find fulfillment and a way for the needs of the heart to be met.Just look at what man uses to find such fulfillment; clubs, cars, careers, clothes and companions, just to name a few.In that search for fulfillment, mankind can find themselves in all kinds of messes vainly following a searching heart as it attempts to fill that void that only the Creator can fill with everything but the Creator.
According to www.dictionary.com the word prescribe means to lay down, in writing or otherwise, as a rule or a course of action to be followed; appoint, ordain, or enjoin.
I have come to realize that in our day-by-day quest to receive, maintain and sustain a pure heart, we must be intentionally, actively set a course of daily action to follow the fundamental truths found in the Holy Bible.This applies directly to the each of us.Man needs to have very firm “rules,” if you will, around what we allow the thoughts of our heart to be.I know that where my thoughts take me, my heart follows.If I allow my thoughts to wander or surf aimlessly they can and will take me right back to my land of captivity that held me in years past.
So, how does one actively prescribe what we allow in our hearts?
First, one must not be passive.Action is involved.Passive means not reactive visibly to something that might be expected to produce manifestations of emotion or feeling, or not participating readily.
Believe me; the Enemy loves a passive heart! A passive heart is a vulnerable heart.A vulnerable heart is a very dangerous thing for a believer to have.
When one is passive one can not be alert for the Enemy’s deception and schemes.Frankly, we are living in times of great deception.Wherever deception is, there the Enemy is at work.
Second, it requires humility and brokenness to get to the point that you can pray and ask the Lord to search your heart and reveal anything that keeps you from being all that He desires.
I am in the process of completing a training class at work titled, “Mastering My Career.”The initial step in the on-line course is a self assessment that measures your strengths and weaknesses against five core developmental career levels.Interestingly, I scored myself relatively high on the first three of the five.My next step is to ask my supervisor and peers to complete the same questionnaire.It will be interesting to see how they compare.I know that man’s self view rarely aligns with others.The tough part is for us to align our self with God’s view.
Finally, once you have engaged in this process and have sought God’s insight, you have to do something about what God brings to your awareness.It is one thing to be ignorant or blind to an area, it’s completely another to have God bring an area that needs attention and not do anything about it.
Our God is faithful: if we will ask, He will reveal.I clearly recall praying several years ago asking God to show me how He sees others.Well, God answered that prayer, not exactly as I thought He would but as it was best to fulfill His purpose and plans.His answer to me was basically, “Russell, first I want you to see yourself as I see you!”That means seeing His good purposes through all my messes.Again, once the light revealed I had to respond.That response is continual.I so desire to have and keep a pure heart and to use that in service and ministry for the Kingdom.
Join me this week praising God for and praying for the following:
1.Pray for our nation.I feel a very strong scene of oppression or depression, even among Believers.
2.Pray for those in the extended PureHeart family that are battling cancer, going through or have gone through divorce, battling addiction.
3.Pray for Brad, Ryan and I as we organize a small group of men who have come to us desiring what PureHeart has to offer.Pray for God’s guidance, God’s timing and God’s will to be fulfilled.
4.Praise God for all He has done and all He is going to do.
5.Pray for eyes to see, ears to hear and hearts to understand!We can not be blind, deaf and lack understanding in our spiritual walks.
6.Pray for our team of prayer partners that bathe this ministry in their prayers.Thank you for your years of faithful prayers.
7.Pray for us.Brad, Ryan and I are all extremely busy with our families, marriages and careers.Pray for us as we balance all.
Sharing from the Heart;
Steve
Last Updated ( Tuesday, 15 September 2009 07:32 )
Turn Away, Turn Back….Now What?
Written by Steve Russell
Wednesday, 22 July 2009 15:57
Luke 22:31-32 (NIV) "Simon, Simon, Satan has asked to sift you as wheat. But I have prayed for you, Simon, that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned back, strengthen your brothers."
Personalizing this:
“Steven, Steven, Satan has asked to sift you as wheat. But I have prayed for you, Steven, that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned back, strengthen your brothers.”
The answer to our “Now What?” question is found right in this passage. Q: Now what? A: Strengthen your brothers.
Before getting to that, let us look at two other aspects worth discovering.
Sift as Wheat I recall helping my dad and uncles harvest wheat at my grandparent’s farm. The combine cuts the wheat and, through a process that I do not understand, separates the wheat from the chaff. Basically, wheat gets saved and chaff is spit out the back. What a dusty process that is, too! The Enemy wants to do this to us, cut us down, beat us up and spit us out! His goal is for there to be no separating of the good from the bad. His goal is to render each of our lives useless for the Kingdom.
However, it does not have to be that way. We as Christians have something in us that our Enemy cannot destroy: Christ! With the presence and power of the Holy Spirit we have available to us Christ’s power to withstand the sifting. I cannot help but think of 2 Corinthians 4:7-9 (NIV) “But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.” I know how a season of sifting feels.
Those times or seasons of sifting, pressing, crushing or persecution are to prove us genuine. (I Peter 1:7)
Being proved genuine comes from a faith that will not fail. Non-failing faith. That’s what I want to be known and remembered for, don’t you? Do you have a faith that is non-failing? Interesting question, isn’t it? I think the only way to answer that question with a resounding “YES” is to be completely filled and lead by the Holy Spirit at all times. Personally, I have yet to meet an individual for whom that would describe their every moment. However, when we approach life with an eternal view we will have much better odds of a life lived and governed by an unfailing faith. Definitely something we ought to be praying and striving for.
Finally, to strengthen you’re brothers! I’ve determined that nothing happens by chance. As I see it and understand it, there is a reason for everything. Life’s sifting provides ministry opportunities -- opportunities to share our God with others and how He brought us through our valleys. How He provides for us if only we will let Him.
What does that look like? I think it looks like Christ and varies on the individual who is willing to do the strengthening. It looks like purpose growing out of your pain and resulting in ministry. So, where does or where did your pain reside? If you can answer that, then you can identify where your area of strengthening and ministry exists.
If you do not know, give us a shout. We have an exercise that helps individuals identify ministry opportunities.
Sharing from the Heart, Steve
Last Updated ( Tuesday, 25 August 2009 15:14 )
Startling Statistics (Spring 2008)
Written by PHM Admin
Wednesday, 04 June 2008 14:36
These come from the Spring 2008 issue of MarriageToday magazine (www.marriagetoday.org).
➢ 4.2 million pornographic web sites ➢ 372 million pornographic pages ➢ 68 million daily pornographic search engine requests ➢ 2.5 billion daily pornographic emails ➢ 8 years old: average age of first Internet exposure to pornography ➢ 12-17 years old: largest consumer of Internet pornography ➢ 90% of 8-16 year olds have viewed porn online (most while doing homework) ➢ 20% of men admit to accessing pornography at work. ➢ 40 million U.S. adults regularly visit Internet pornography websites. ➢ 47% of Christians said pornography is a major problem in the home. ➢ 70% of women keep their cyber activities secret. ➢ Women favor chat rooms 2 times more than men. ➢ 1 out of 3 visitors to all adult web sites are women. ➢ 9.4 million women access adult web sites each month. ➢ U.S. porn revenues exceed the combined revenues of ABC, CBS, and NBC (6.2 billion) ➢ Total size of the industry worldwide: 97 billion dollars
Last Updated ( Thursday, 05 June 2008 16:27 )
I WILL Praise Him
Written by PHM Admin
Wednesday, 04 June 2008 13:21
Greetings from the PureHeart team!
I want to personally thank each of you for standing by us throughout the years. The past 12-18 months have been dark and heavy for me as a man, a husband, a father and as a leader. The words found in Exodus 15:2 have kept me going, “The LORD is my strength and my song; he has become my salvation. He is my God, and I will praise him, my father's God, and I will exalt him.”
Have you ever found yourself, in the troughs of life, struggling to praise Him? I have. However, those words kept pressing me on to praise Him even when that praise came hard. It is difficult to deliver praise from parched lips or a wounded heart. Sometimes it is simply an act of determination: I will praise Him. As this verse says, He has become my salvation. He is becoming my salvation. What a process and journey! I feel the cloud lifting, and as it lifts, my renewed strength for life and ministry is returning.
I want to encourage you, as one who has been oppressed, depressed and obsessed, to keep on praising Him. He is faithful and is the only faithful One. I am uncertain why valleys of darkness have to come when they come and as intense as this one has been. However, I know I’m a different person than I was before. I know Him better, and I know myself better; and ultimately by knowing both, I can minister better. I also have seen the shadow of the Enemy through all this. The Enemy would love it if he could silence the message of PureHeart Ministries. That in itself is motivation to keep me moving despite the thoughts and ideas of simply quitting. I cannot quit!
With your continual prayers and encouragement, I will press on and allow the LORD to become my complete strength, song and salvation. And not only mine, but the strength, song and salvation of PureHeart Ministries as well. And jointly - because as the leader, my life and experiences will naturally be reflected in Pure- Heart’s message - we will praise Him.
Your prayers and support of PHM have been a blessing to me and a key part of our ministry success. Don’t stop! As we move forward in ministry we count on your prayers even more.